Life Update: 5 years in love!!!

                                5 YEAR ANNIVERSARY

         Hello my lovers!!! I'm finally back!! I apologize for falling behind yet again with my blogs. If you follow me on any of my social media you would know that I have been M.I.A due to our car being in the shop. Due to not due to not having a car we had to stay closer to the city at my family home. That means I had no laptop or products! I didn't know what to do with myself! I really missed writing for my loves! Any who I am back in business! Though this week was a stressful one it was a very joyous one! This past Tuesday Febuary 17th me and Charlie celebrated our 5th anniversary! I can not believe it has been 5 years. It seems like yesterday that we first met. Where has the time gone? I guess what they say is true...time really does fly when you are having fun! Despite all the stress of our car we managed to have a beautiful anniversary. I made the video above for my love and his reaction to it was priceless. He watched it and was so moved he had happy tears. He said it was the best gift I could ever give him and it meant so much to him. His reaction was so full of love and affection. He just kept saying how much he love me and how beautiful I am. Something so small meant so much to him. Seeing him love the video so much really made me feel good. It made our day even more special. With no car we had to walk to dinner in the frizzing cold. It didn't matter to us because we where warm with love for each other. We went to dinner at Red Robin because it was close to where we where staying. Dinner was amazing! Everything was perfect from the dinner to the service. The whole dinner he never let go of my hands. It was such a romantic night in the simplest of ways. We have grown so much in these past 5 years. We went from being fools in love to a mature married couple. Everyday we continue to grow and build our future together. We both have stable jobs and a home of our own. He is such an amazing man! It really takes a special man to deal with a woman like me. He make me wanna be a better woman and I can't thank him enough for that. He showed me a I could love and be loved in return. He showed me that I could trust someone. He is the reason my heart beats fast and slow at the same time. I can not wait to see what our future holds for us! Thanks for reading!

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Relationships VS Gift Giving

         

                                      GIFT GIVING

       Getting and reserving gift are great! It is even greater in relationships. Giving a gift is a great way to show the one you love how well you know their personalty and what they like. Gift giving doesn't come easy for everyone. Shopping for gifts can get confusing and stressful! There are so many different types of gift giving events through the year such as birthdays, anniversary, and of course holidays. Here are a few tips to getting the best gift for him or her.

                        

                                        Gifts for her

         Guys don't panic! I know how stressful it must be to shop for that special gift for that special lady. Here are a few tips to keep in mind while shopping. 1) What is the occasion? :  Occasion means everything! You tend to go bigger the bigger the occasion. Sometimes more goes into the gift for different occasions. For your anniversary take your lady got on a romantic dinner to a place that really means something special in your relationship like where you had your first date. If you can manage not to burn down your home make her her favorite meal. For her birthday plan a surprise birthday party for her! Invite all her closest friends and family. 2) Her like and dislikes. While shopping keep in mind her favorite, scents, colors, brands, actors, authors, stores, and styles. 3) Listen! She will drop hints fellas so keep your ears open! She will guide you to the gifts she has been wanting. Now for some gift ideas!

•  FOR THE MUSIC LOVER! : If your lady is a singer or musician some great gifts would be Beats head phones ( $110 +), A itunes gift card, Her favorite artist new album ( $20 ), A mix CD of all her favorite songs, if you are musically gifted write and perform a song just for her, or take her out to a concert that she has been dying to go to. 
• FOR THE MAKEUP AND FASHION LOVER! : Plan her a day of beauty! Take her to get her hair, makeup and nails done then pick a spending limit and take her on a shopping spree. Then pick her out a special outfit to take her out to a special dinner.
• FOR THE BOOKWORM! : Buy her a kindle or nook and add a few of her favorite books or a few of her favorite authors. Buy her a year subscription to her favorite magazines.
• FOR THE JEWELRY LOVER! : DIAMONDS ARE ALWAYS A GOOD IDEA! Know her sizes, her favorite color, her favorite gems, her favorite cuts, and designers.
• FOR THE TRAVELER! : Pack your bags boys! Take her on a romantic get away for two. Take her to her favorite place or somewhere she has always wanted to visit.
• FOR THE MOVIE BUFF! : Take her to a romantic movie that she has been dying to see, cuddle up on the coach have a marathon of her favorite movies, take her to a drive in movie or a movie in the park. 

                                 

                                    GIFTS FOR HIM

        Lets face it ladies we live for getting gifts and shopping for them! We will take any reason to head to the mall! Guys are super easy to please and even easier to shop for but of course we go the extra mile to make it special.  We as woman tend to wanna out do everyone else same goes for gifts! The better the gift the better girlfriend you are. The problem with being such good gift givers is we have to out due that gift the next Christmas or birthday! If you just started shopping for the guy you just started dating and  you really wanna impress him here are a few gift ideas.

• THE GAMER GUY! : Get this fellas the newest hottest game that he has been wanting ( $60 ) up that by getting him the special edition of that game. Get him a new customized controller or head set. If the game he really wants isn't out go ahead and pre-order is for him. If you really have some extra cash and really REALLY love him get him the newest consoles. 
• THE SPORTS FAN! : Take your man to see his favorite teams play. Buy him his favorite team member jersey. Buy him any sports related!
• THE EATER! : Make him his favorite meal with a little something something special for dessert.
• THE NERD! : Buy him all the new electronics! Ipods, Beats, New desktop computer or laptop, kindle or nook, or the smartest smart phone
• THE CAR LOVER : Take him to a car show.
• THE BLING BLING GUY! : A new watch, ring, or necklaces. Matching jewelry always cute and special.

                     

       My best advice is you don't have to spread millions of dollars for something to be special. After all the most special gift you give to him/her you give to them every moment everyday. The great gift you can give someone his your heart, endless love, and affection. Diamonds lose their sparkle, we grow out of clothes, and the newest games or technology is always yesterdays news. All the must have material things just wide up sitting around just collecting dust. What really sticks is what comes from the heart. A romantic love note, A good romantic home cooked meal, a home made mix tape made up of all those romantic love songs that mean the most, a slow dance under the stars, a walk on the beach, or a home message. Make something that they will treasure for a life time. True love never dulls its spark. A heart never collects dust. Make it come from the heart. Make your gift mean something special. Keeping living. Keep loving.

                                                                                                                                                                                             xoxo wizzy