Dear Graduates!

                    






                Hi there! Wizzy Here! It is a very special time of year. It is graduation season yet again! I love graduation season! I really love seeing my friends and family graduating from all levels of education. I loving seeing all the graduates and their loved ones on my news feed. I admit it's been a while scene me and charlie graduated high school. I have been out of school for 5 years now and I have learned somethings along the way. I have a few things I want to share with the classes of 2015!



Dear Middle School Graduates,


                  Congratulations!  You made it through what to me was the hardest three years of school! Lets be honest middle school sucks! You made it! You did it! You survived! You survived three rough and awkward years. Being in middle school is just that being in the middle. You aren't a kid but you aren't a teenager yet. You are just starting to bloom into the person you are going to be. You made it through middle school now you are off to high school. Now this can be really scary. Going from middle to high school is a big leap! The transition into high school comes with big changes. When you are in middle school you tend to have a small group of friends. These people become your best friends then the time comes to pick high schools and you don't all go to the same place. You start taking different paths in life. Yes friendships do tend to go separate ways. That doesn't always have to be the case. If you really care about those friends and want to stay close then you make it work. Don't be upset if you can't make those friendships last because maybe it just wasn't met to be.  In high school you will do a lot of growing and learning about your self. You will fall. You will dust your self off and keep it moving. You will make mistakes. You be ok. You will make it through and you will be just fine. Now my advice to you. School is not that bad. I know it sucks and feels so stupid but it will fly by! My biggest regret is not applying myself like I should have. The work really isn't that hard. Just try your best. Do the work. Hand the work in! You can do it. It really isn't that bad.



   Dear High School Graduates,


         
                    Congratulations!!! You made it through four very long years of high school. High school can be the best of times and the worst of times. In high school you started the long process of finding yourself. Trust me when you may feel like you know who you are....you never really know who you are. You never really know who you are because  you are always going to be growing and learning. There is no doubt that you have gone through an extreme transformation from that awkward 9th grader to the fresh young adult. As you throw your cap into the air with your diploma in hand this is the most exciting yet terrifying moment so far in your life. Your future starts today! You are now a " grown up". You are now fully responsible for yourself! No more depending on mom to do everything for you. You now have to take control of your own life and future. This is so scary! I've been there! They throw you didn't the real world with lets be honest no real training! You don't know how taxes or credit really works. I bet you know all the tables of every subject you ever had to study. Life is scary no doubt about it. So lets all take a deep breath! My advice to you is that it is okay to not be ready and to be scared. It is okay to not know what you wanna be when you grow up! I am 24 and I swear I change my mind everyday about what I wanna do with my life. Take baby steps. Take life day by day. Just roll with the bunches and never give up. Learn as you go. Just try your best and remember you don't know everything so it is okay to ask for help.



     Dear Collage Graduates,


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                        WOOHOO! CONGRATS! You are finished! You made it! No more teachers! No more papers! No more essays! No more exams or finals! No more classes! You are so done! This is such a proud moment in your adult life! You are officially ready to start your life as an adult. Now I know a lot of you put so much pressure on yourself. You feel like in should have your life together by now. You should have your dream job set up or a billion offers! You should be engaged and planning a wedding. You should be doing everything you see other adults doing. STOP! Stop please! You just finished maybe the hardest years of education yet so give your self a pat on the back and take it easy. We only have one life so don't rush it away. The dream wedding, house, job, and family will all come when the time is right!   Take it one day at  a time. Being a grown up is hard! Go home and take a little breather for the summer. Then go out and find that dream job you have been working so hard for. It is fine to not have your shit together. Honestly no one every really has all their shit together.  There is always something new that is going to be happening. There will always be some new to learn. Let God take the wheel and point you to where you need to be. Just go with it.

CLASS OF 2015 CONGRATULATIONS! YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU PUT YOUR MIND TO!                

Dealing With The Haters

            
                                         

                                             HATERS

       It's sad but true in the world today haters run rampage! Some if none really want to see people do good and succeeded.   There are many different types of haters. There is the bullies, the back stabbers, friend enemies, and the groupies. Haters live off of drama and other peoples pain. Hater means having anger toward everyone reaching success. I'm going to tell you my story and how you to can overcome the haters in life.

                              

       The bully is the most popular form of hater in today society. Bullies are the weakest forms of human beings. They are cowards because they go out to hurt those who can't help themselves. As time went on and the world grows you see bulling happening more and more. As the world changes so does bulling. In today's world bulling isn't just about lunch money and it doesn't stop after you go home. It all the time. Everywhere. In today's world boys and girls are being bullied about their looks, their bodies, their families, where they live, how much money they do or don't have, the way they act or don't act, how they dress, or anything under the sun. Bullies are cruel and ruthless. They attack people over things they can't help or change. Because of social media such as facebook and twitter bullies has become worse then ever and more dangerous then every before. Those being bullied are never safe or at easy and may aren't strong enough then they end it just to escape the pain. Have you ever really looked at the lost souls who died due to bulling? They are some of the most beautiful people. The bullies show no sadness or remorse. It happens way too often in today's society. 

                                         

     The backstabber is someone who pretends to care and earns your trust then turns it on you. Sometimes you really don't know who you can and can't trust in life. This happens more with females then males. You meet a new girl maybe at school, work, at the club, or at a party and you really click. You really hit it off. You hang out a few times. She may open up to you about something personal that may or may not be true. Then you feel like you can trust her and open up to her. You tell her something really personal. At first she will pretend to be your friend but them you start hearing stuff about you through the grape vine. Something no one else knew. No one but her. Congratulations you have officially been stabbed in the back. She will slip into your life and you will trust her again and again till you build up a wall that no trust is going to break through. She will try to steal your life. Your friends. The biggest thing about a backstabber is they are jealous. They find people who have what they want but can't have then they will do whatever it takes to take it from you.

                                        


         Haters can really hit close to home. They can be close friends or even family! This is the most hurtful and scaring form of haters. Sadly I have had friends and family hate on me. This can happen to anyone who really has something going for them. All my life I have had friends who I have been friends with for years hate on me even bully me. I was bullied really bad all through middle school buy two girls that I was best friends with all through my childhood. We grew up in the same neighborhood and our parents even grew up together. We where like sisters. Always clued to each other's sides. Then they talked me into going to their school then everything changed. They ganged up on me. They talked about me and picked on everything about me. They made middle school hell! The bulling got so bad that my grandparents started picking me up and taking me out to lunch. A few time the bulling got so bad we got sent to the office. They said they treated me horrible because that is how our friendship was. I was so glad for middle school to be over with. But the frenemies didn't stop there! There was a girl I was like sisters with my whole life. She was also bullies so we became really close. We would have little falling outs but I would always forgive her because I felt sorry for her. I was really her only true friend. When her parents divorced  I was there. When no one showed up to her 16th birthday party I was there. When the 15th boyfriend broke up with her I was her shoulder to cry on. When she was hit by a car I was there for her. I was by her side for weeks after her car accident. At that time 2 billiards it Baltimore so everyday in the snow and ice I would walk up hill to her house to hang out with her. Little did I know I was dealing with a crazy bitch. Once I met my hubby I really got to see her true colors. She got super jealous and she wanted my husband. She started telling people horrible lies about my family. She told people me and my uncle rapped her for 8 years. She said I went into her job and attacked her. She said she had my husband wrapped around her finger and could take him away if she wanted. She told people my husband didn't really love me. That he just felt sorry for me. She told people that I cheated on my husband. She said I slept with her boyfriends. She spread horrible things about me, my family, and my relationship. You don't mess with people I love no matter how long we were friends so I cut ties where her. Still today she tries to make nice with me but I have learned my lesson. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me.


              


       The groupies! Not the groupies trying to hook up with Justin Bieber at his latest concert but the hater groupies! Yea you know what I'm talking about. The people you really don't have a problem with but they have a problem with you because their boy or home girl is hating on you. This happens a lot with me in my relationship. Girl I didn't even know hated on me because I was with my hubby. All his ex's friends hated on me. I mean I get why his ex's hated on me because my hubby upgraded big time! I didn't even go their school and gossip about us where all over their school. I didn't pay any attention because I'm grown and not petty. Besides they can talk all they want I won in the end. Girl hated all over social media after I started dating my husband. I really lost track of all the statuses and tweets they have mad about us. To this day they still hate! They comment on my facebook pictures and message me "OH MY GOD! YOU GUYS ARE STILL TOGETHER?!". They even block me. All that doesn't both me. After 4 years they still talk. They will whisper, point, and stair. They''l spread gossip and rumors just like they spread their legs but I still win. Misery loves company!

                                     


       My advice on haters is they are gonna hate! The worse thing you can to is hate right back at the. Never stoop to their level. You are so above all that. Instead of letting it get to you SMILE! SMILE BECAUSE IT KILLS THEM! You can't let them win. Fly above all the drama! Let your haters be your motivators! Love them because they make you famous! If people aren't talking them you aren't doing it right. Sooner or later they'll get bored and move onto something bigger and better. Learn from what they say. Find strengh in what they do to you. Remember and I promise your life will be a million times better then the bullies and the haters! They have nothing bright in their future but you....you have the world at your feet! Go for whatever you dream of never let anyone hold you down. After all you have to fight some wars to build your kingdom or queendom. Keep calm and Carry on!