Life Update: 5 years in love!!!

                                5 YEAR ANNIVERSARY

         Hello my lovers!!! I'm finally back!! I apologize for falling behind yet again with my blogs. If you follow me on any of my social media you would know that I have been M.I.A due to our car being in the shop. Due to not due to not having a car we had to stay closer to the city at my family home. That means I had no laptop or products! I didn't know what to do with myself! I really missed writing for my loves! Any who I am back in business! Though this week was a stressful one it was a very joyous one! This past Tuesday Febuary 17th me and Charlie celebrated our 5th anniversary! I can not believe it has been 5 years. It seems like yesterday that we first met. Where has the time gone? I guess what they say is true...time really does fly when you are having fun! Despite all the stress of our car we managed to have a beautiful anniversary. I made the video above for my love and his reaction to it was priceless. He watched it and was so moved he had happy tears. He said it was the best gift I could ever give him and it meant so much to him. His reaction was so full of love and affection. He just kept saying how much he love me and how beautiful I am. Something so small meant so much to him. Seeing him love the video so much really made me feel good. It made our day even more special. With no car we had to walk to dinner in the frizzing cold. It didn't matter to us because we where warm with love for each other. We went to dinner at Red Robin because it was close to where we where staying. Dinner was amazing! Everything was perfect from the dinner to the service. The whole dinner he never let go of my hands. It was such a romantic night in the simplest of ways. We have grown so much in these past 5 years. We went from being fools in love to a mature married couple. Everyday we continue to grow and build our future together. We both have stable jobs and a home of our own. He is such an amazing man! It really takes a special man to deal with a woman like me. He make me wanna be a better woman and I can't thank him enough for that. He showed me a I could love and be loved in return. He showed me that I could trust someone. He is the reason my heart beats fast and slow at the same time. I can not wait to see what our future holds for us! Thanks for reading!

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Relationships VS Exs

                                


                                                                  Relationship VS Exs




         Ex's...some of them move on with their lives but then you have the ones who don't want you but don't want you to be with anyone else. Of course you know the type. The ones who can go out with anyone but don't want you to be happy. I noticed that it more happens with girls then guys! Ex's are hard to get over depending on the relationship. They really do like to mess things up when you find something good.

                    

        Now Exs were a big problem when me and my husband first started dating. He didn't have the best track record before we met. There was only two of his ex's that really bothered me. We will call them EX A and Ex B. Well Ex B wasn't anything really serious. She was one of those....there really isn't a nice word for it....sluts! I am really not being judge mental she really was a slut. She would sleep with a guy just because he gave her a ride home from the party! Really girl just give him gas money not your vagina! Their relationship really didn't last long but once me and my husband started dating she came out of the wood work. She would txt him asking him for birthday sex and asking if me and him had sex! Who does that! After that my husband deleted her number for good! Now Ex A was a little more serious....he even said he thought she was the one. She was the type of girl who liked to play head games with people. She really hurt my husband but when we met of course I fixed all that! The first night we met he said he knew I was the real girl he was going to grow old with. Ex A really didn't like that she even told him I was only of his brilliant mistake and that we never last. She even got really pissed because he didn't say hi to her while me and him where on a date. Back when they dated she told him she fell out of love with him then wanted him back when she got bord. He finally cut ties with her then met me about a month later. Even after 4 years she still wants him to run back to her. She is the ex that doesn't want the guy but doesn't want anyone else to be happy with him.

                     

        Now they don't always have to have had a romantic relationship or been bf and gf to be an ex. Their are also sometimes the sex Exs. The girls they hooked up with, fuck buddies, one night stands, and the sexting buddies. Luckily i haven't had much trouble with these exs! No its normal for guys to sexting buddies. Most guys and girls have them now a days. My husband had one who he was very close friends with. It really didn't bother me at first because the past is the past i am the future. Then she started to try to sext him while me and him where together. So not ok! Then my husband match her and his best friend up. It was so awkward being around her. She would always check him.out and tried being really flirty with him. Turns out she had been cheating the whole year she had been with my husbands best friend. Thankfully none of us talk to her anymore.


                         

   Exs have been one of my biggest speed pumps in my relationship because i hated seeing how much they hurt him and wanted to hurt us. So here is some advice. Release that your his upgrade! Don't stoop to their level! you are better then the rest that is why he is with you and not them. If he really wanted them he would still be after them. He is with you because you are ment to be together. When you do happen to run ito his ex smile big, hold onto his arm, and lay a big kiss on him! show them what they let go and are never getting back. Be proud to be the one he choose to spend his life with. The past doesn't matter because you are his girl now and you'll never hurt him. You make his life better and a hell of a lot easier. There is no reason to fight an ex after all you already one the prize.

50 Facts About My Relationship

                              

                      50 Facts About My Relationship

1. We met on February 15 at 10:50pm though Facebook! I was feeling at the end of my rope. I was in a very dark place. I was thinking about ending it all that night. I prayed to God to send me someone. Send me a season to live. Little did I know there was someone not that far away who was going through the same thing. I posted a status with my number in it. About 5 minutes later Charlie texted  me "Hi:)". He changed everything. 
2. It was love at first txt. I told him everything about my past, what I have been through, and everything about me. 
3. I am 2 years older then Charlie so he never thought he had a chance and I never thought I was good enough for him.
4. We became  official on February 17, 2010
5. We had our first date on February 27, 2010 at a bowling alley
6. We had our first kiss on my coach on February 28, 2010
7. He was my very first kiss
8. He was 16 and I was 18 when we got together
9. His full name is Charles Rex Hellmann II but if he was born a girl his name would have been Elizabeth Ann Hellmann which is my name.
10. He proposed on our first Valentines day on the swing set at a play ground we went to the first time we saw each other and where we use to always sit and talk. 
11. Our wedding is set for his birthday June 17, 2017
12. He use to take the bus to my house every single day to see me
13. We have been with each other every single day scene the day we first kissed
14. We moved in together in May when we had only been dating 3 months
15. We said I love you for the first time only after 2 weeks of dating
16. We got to see each other graduate High School
17. He was the first guy I every said I love you to
18. He was the first guy I ever made love to
19. We will be together 4 years this February
20. When I had to have surgery he never left my side unless he went to school. He would stay up all night with me then go to school then come right back to the hospital after he got out of school
21. He went to my senor prom and I got to go to his senor and junior prom
22. The first night we every spent the night was up his dad's house in PA
23. The first meal he every made was pop tarts and burritos
24. Every night before bed we say to each other "I love you more. Infinity and Beyond"
25. We never fight. We may disagree time to time but we always talk through it
26. We never go to bed angry
27. We have had a lot of haters though our relationship
28. He plans on being a police officer 
29. We both had very different paths. I had a place and a job lined up in California and he was going to be a marine but we where each other's reasons to stay
30. We grew up only 15 miles from each other
31. He is super close to my little brother and I am super close to his older brother John. 
32. We are truly best friends
33. We tell each other everything and we talk through everything with each other
34. We plan on having three boys Jackson Cash, Ricky James, and Phoenix Rex.
35. We are going to raise all our boys to be football players. NFL here we come!
36. I love our inside secrets and joke
37. He loves the southern charm in my voice and I love his baby blue charming bed room eyes
38. We love to spend out days playing video games together and watching movies
39. Our first summer together we stayed up all night every night and watched movies. We watched every movie in my house by the end of summer.
40. We both went to our first wedding together
41. He was the first boy I ever spent the night with and I was the first girl he spent the night with
42. He LOVES my famous PB&Js
43. We have a very weird love. It is one of a kind for sure but i wouldn't change it for any other love in the world
44. He gives the best hugs
45. He gives the best kisses and he has the sexiest lips
46. He is the nicest guy in the world. He has the biggest heart and finds the best in everyone. 
47. He is so giving. He would give the shirt off his back to anyone who needed it
48. I wish I could be half the person he is
49. He has been told he is so polite it makes people sick. lol
50. Charlie is really the last of a dieing breed. He still believes in treating women like women. He is truly a gentleman. He holds the door open and helps me out of the car. He is my prince charming. He is my everything and I don't deserve him but I am so blessed that fate, God, and destiny brought us together. I don't know what I would do without him in my life. He is my rock. He holds me down. We always have each other's backs. We live life to the fullest and love harder amd more then anyone could ever love someone else. We live every day by our vows. Through sickness and health we have been together. Through thick and thin we stand strong. From richer or poor we make it work. We promise to be true to one another through the good and bad. We will love and honor each other till death do us part. Our love will live on infinity and beyond.